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Smvzawz's avatar

This is probably more relevant for Americans - I think that a majority of Europeans have a slightly different attitude to life. As a Swede and having lived and worked in both Sweden and the UK, I have a feeling that over here we generally value a life-work balance mire than Americans. You've got one life, there's no replay!

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Justin Welsh's avatar

Potentially true.

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Boris Tatar's avatar

Being from Europe, but lived both in the US and in the mediterranean I can tell we definitely have better work/life balance. The best indicator is a full cafes on a random Tuesday @ 1pm because everyone is taking 2hr break during work hours. You cant see that in the States. Or anywhere else for that matter.

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Zhenya Zerkalenkov's avatar

I thought exactly the same

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Zhenya Zerkalenkov's avatar

No offense, but I really (honestly) wonder if this is how life in US is.

I mean, in Europe we really have people that are also as obsessed about money. But I’d say that 90% of Europe is more about living life than hoarding money.

I live in Germany, where I feel like US culture comes over very intensely. And, from what I’ve seen, people in Germany are MUCH more obsessed about money than all other Europeans. But it’s definitely not as crazy as US. I hear it from Americans all the time. As if they all belong to some kind of money cult.

It’s great that you have the awareness to reverse the process and show people that the goal of having money is actually living a life.

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Justin Welsh's avatar

Yeah, it’s likely an American thing but I’m American so I can only write about it from my perspective. It’s a massive problem here, for sure. (IMO)

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Pat Wetzel's avatar

The wreckage left behind by unbridled ambition is astounding. And so sad. My ex couldn't even take the time to go to my father's funeral.

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Justin Welsh's avatar

Oh wow. That's not good. Sorry to hear that, Pat.

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Pat Wetzel's avatar

Long time ago. Live and learn!

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Forest M.'s avatar

POW!

Excellent piece.

Thank you!

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Justin Welsh's avatar

Welcome!

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Jenn C's avatar

As a mom and small business owner, this really resonated. Ooof leaving money

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Justin Welsh's avatar

I'm so glad it did, Jenn.

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Tom Stearns's avatar

I love this post, Justin. The subject line caught my attention but the lesson was the opposite of what I expected. I've taken every Friday off now for 2 years and have kept things pretty simple, too. But I often doubt myself. Could/should I be trying to capitalize more on what I do? This post helps me sit back a little and have the confidence to continue to leave some money on the table for the true love of what I do and the precious time for family and hobbies. Thank you!

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Justin Welsh's avatar

I think you're making the right decision, Tom :)

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Amanda Hamilton's avatar

Such a great piece. There's always a tradeoff. Thanks for sharing!

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Justin Welsh's avatar

Thanks for reading, Amanda!

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Radan's avatar

For me, this is might be your best piece of writing yet. Masterful. I've nodded along to a lot of your words but this is the first time I literally felt them in the chest.

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Justin Welsh's avatar

Thank you, Radan!

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Navjot Dhillon's avatar

This write up is very impacting. It’s a wake up call for many. I absolutely love the analogy of ‘ everyone’s leaving the wrong thing on the table’. The philosophy about money regenerating but not life moments really hit home.

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Justin Welsh's avatar

I'm so glad it resonated, Navjot.

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Angela Marie D’Antonio's avatar

Love this. I am reading Company of One: Why Staying Small is the Next Big Thing in Business with a bookclub group of professional women. This kind of message runs throughout the book and it is sad how countercultural it is! We were all struck by the businessperson who decided how much they needed to make and when they hit that number, they stopped working for the rest of the year! whoa. life goals.

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Len Denton's avatar

Justin, great advice as usual. Time is our only non-renewable resource.

Keep brining the goodstuff.

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Jeremy P. McKay's avatar

What a great article Justin. It applies to a broad audience not just solopreneurs

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Shelly's avatar

This is a great read with some great advice!

I started my online ventures a while ago and at first I was working from when I woke up to when I went to sleep but quickly changed to ending my working hours after my husband got home from his job so I’m not working all of our time together away. I’ve also made it a point to dedicate at least one day a week to go see my parents- I was only visiting once a month maybe twice but I realized it just wasn’t enough time and someday, I’m going to regret not visiting more.

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Justin Mosley's avatar

When we periodically catch ourselves slipping back into the "all too busy routine", my wife and I frequently remind each other that time with our kids is ever slipping away. And sadly, time is something we don't get back. As such, as times pours out, we've committed to pouring in. Pouring in those impactful investments of love, energy, and presence. Because no matter how much money we might leave our kids one day, what they'll truly remember -- and hopefully cherish -- are all those moments we spent with them. Not the money we left behind.

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Sean McCormick, M. Ed.'s avatar

I think this really resonates coming from Justin Welsh because he is an American that could clearly keep building massive wealth. Justin was born in this society, but instead of getting trapped in the trappings of materialism, he is choosing a different path, and bringing us along for the ride.

So it’s cool that Europeans may not deal with this as much since their society has less consumerism overall, but for me, as another young man, born in America, to see someone like Justin who could easily use his intelligence to exponentially increase his wealth, but is instead choosing to spread wisdom and have “enough” this is straight up groundbreaking.

Thank you Justin for getting to the top and helping us see fact from fiction 💯

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Justine Christabel's avatar

This was so good. Thank you. Enjoyed it very much.

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